Miss Samantha,
I'm sitting in a main building on campus right now. I just observed an unbelievable sight....
A young Asian couple were walking by and the gentleman of the couple was.... carrying her pink bag.
Yea, for real. Who does that!? I mean its nice that he is trying to help her out. But her pink bag? Really? It's pink. And just because you're Asian and can get away with a lot of styles that a lot of other people can't, it is STILL NOT ACCEPTABLE to carry a pink bag.
There are a few reasons why this is NOT acceptable:
- Guys who do everything their girl wants are NOT real men. It is okay to say no once in awhile. If she's cool, she'll understand - well, if she's cool, she wouldn't have dared asked in the first place.
- He may think "maybe if I obey her, she'll put out tonight." Chances are she still won't put out tonight because she's only keeping you around for one reason - to carry her pink bag.
- If you're carrying her bag, maybe you're compensating for something - lack of pleasuring her, you're bad at sex - so maybe you should work on those skills instead of carrying her pink bag.
- You can train your dog to carry your bag. It is not okay to train your boyfriend to do this. It is not right - he is not a dog. You should respect him a little bit at least...
Boyfriends: MAN UP AND SAY NO!
Girlfriends: GIVE HIM A BREAK! He DOES NOT want to look whipped around his friends... but in bed its fine ;)
Miss you,
xoxo Carrie
